I had actually written quite a bit for a post I had intended to put up [entitled Is It Fate Or Merely A Coincidence?]but I have now made it all private.
I saw something last night and I had decided not to post up what I had written, not yet anyway.
Hearing something is bad enough but seeing it is completely different. Its a lot worse, more than what I can handle (I now realise). This is what happens when assumptions are made but the reality is different.