My really close friend has been having some relationship problems. It’s over really small things but they don’t seem to be able to sort it out. It’s a shame really as down on pen and paper they are perfect for each other, I guess it takes more than that. They been having the same arguments over the same things, break up and get back together, break up again and together again, it’s a cycle, so I suppose you can’t say they don’t try. Hearing of their problems, I think to myself ‘if I were in her shoes’ I probably would have broken it off permanently. I suppose that’s just how I am, of course you try to make it work but if it really isn’t working, why hold on?
Then I looked back at my past relationships, though I’m not sure I would call it that…. I mean its guys I’ve dated (I wouldn’t call them ‘boyfriends’ so why call it a relationship). Hmmm…. they tend not to last long enough for me to call them my ‘boyfriend’. I can definitly say I’m not picky at all!!!! I just don’t seem to get that feeling I want. I’m at that stage where I want someone for keeps. In saying that I don’t mean whenever I date someone I think “oh I can marry this guy or oh not marriage material”, I DO NOT DO THAT!!! Its kind of creppy to those that do! I just mean I don’t want to date for fun anymore. I can’t be bothered, whats the point! Serisouly, I see quite a few people who date loosely for yearsssss and then just break it off as if ‘ehh’, WHAT IS THE POINT!
I don’t think I can date someone for years and not have marriage or that sort of status on the table. Again WHATS THE POINT!!!
Before I end off, I saw this picture on another blog and thought it was pretty cool.